This is Why Your Expectations Shape Your Success

I’m diving into how your expectations can directly impact your results—both positively and negatively. Whether it’s in your career or daily life, what you expect often becomes reality. Let me explain with a story and show you how to shift your mindset to set yourself up for success.
Cause Expectations shape your success.

The Power of Expectations

Last weekend, I went to a supermarket near my home. These trips are a mix of excitement and dread because Saturdays are always crowded. I went anyway, fully expecting chaos. And chaos was exactly what I got.

From blocked aisles to a 10-person band playing in the store, it was more crowded than I imagined. I wasn’t surprised, though—this was what I expected.

The same principle applies at work. If I enter a meeting room expecting loud voices to dominate and my ideas to be ignored, that’s often what happens. Why? Because my behavior matches my expectations.

Shift Your Expectations to Shift Your Reality

What if, instead of expecting chaos or rejection, I expected success? When I decide to focus on what I want, my behavior changes. I take up space. I speak with confidence. I claim my place in the room. And guess what? People respond differently.

Everything I give my attention to grows—both the positive and the negative. That’s why it’s so important to set positive expectations.

Expectations in Career Conversations

As we approach year-end evaluations, think about this: If you expect your manager to say no to your desired promotion or raise, chances are they will. But if you expect them to see your value, you’ll behave differently. You’ll prepare better, speak with conviction, and inspire them to say yes.

This doesn’t mean things will happen automatically. You still need to take action, be creative, and make your case. But it all starts with believing it’s possible.

Expectations Shape Your Success

Here’s a powerful sentence that inspires me:
“It makes perfect sense to pursue every dream with the expectation it becomes reality.”

When I expect my dreams to become real, I focus on what’s possible. I act in ways that align with those possibilities. And so can you.

Expect More, Achieve More

Your expectations shape your success. Whether it’s in meetings, career growth, or life’s daily challenges, it all starts with what you choose to expect. Focus on what you want, take action, and watch how your reality shifts.

Ready to Shift Your Expectations?

Listen to this episode and learn how to align your focus with your dreams.

Susan Veldkamp
— Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!